Wednesday, August 6, 2008


Though not a usual blog-type personal experience, the following piece is SO GOOD, I couldn't NOT publish it. Please read on, there's a truckload of our kind of stuff, succinctly expressed here--Steve E.

Spirituality Means Waking Up
Anthony De Mello, SJ

Spirituality means waking up. Most people, even though they don't know it, are asleep. They're born asleep, they live asleep, they marry in their sleep, they breed children in their sleep, they die in their sleep without ever waking up. They never understand the loveliness and the beauty of this thing that we call human existence. You know, all mystics -Catholic, Christian, non-Christian, no matter what their theology, no matter what their religion -- are unanimous on one thing: that all is well, all is well. Though everything is a mess, all is well. Strange paradox, to be sure. But, tragically, most people never get to see that all is well because they are asleep. They are having a nightmare.

Last year on Spanish television I heard a story about this gentleman who knocks on his son's door. "Jaime," he says, "wake up!" Jaime answers, "I don't want to get up, Papa." The father shouts, "Get up, you have to go to school." Jaime says, "I don't want to go to school." "Why not?" asks the father. "Three reasons," says Jaime. "First, because it's so dull; second, the kids tease me; and third, I hate school." And the father says, "Well, I am going to give you three reasons why you must go to school. First, because it is your duty; second, because you are forty-five years old, and third, because you are the headmaster." Wake up, wake up! You've grown up. You're too big to be asleep. Wake up! Stop playing with your toys.

Most people tell you they want to get out of kindergarten, but don't believe them. Don't believe them! All they want you to do is to mend their broken toys. "Give me back my wife. Give me back my job. Give me back my money. Give me back my reputation, my success." This is what they want; they want their toys replaced. That's all. Even the best psychologist will tell you that, that people don't really want to be cured. What they want is relief; a cure is painful.

Waking up is unpleasant, you know. You are nice and comfortable in bed. It's irritating to be woken up. That's the reason the wise guru will not attempt to wake people up. I hope I'm going to be wise here and make no attempt whatsoever to wake you up if you are asleep. It is really none of my business, even though I say to you at times, "Wake up!" My business is to do my thing, to dance my dance. If you profit from it, fine; if you don't, too bad! As the Arabs say, "The nature of rain is the same, but it makes thorns grow in the marshes and flowers in the gardens."


Michael said...

Hi, hey that was a great post, have you ever read The Celestine Profesy, you must have because its right where you are talking.
I think there is a great massive world out there more amazing than we can even imagine, most of it beneath the surface.
Over the four years of being sober and practising the steps my life has become unmeasuably more richer and alive and I dont believe any loger that we all come to an end with death.
Its been quite a journey so far but I cant help but think I am still just starting out, like Ben Kenobi says to Luke Skywalker in "A New Hope", you have took your first steps into a much bigger world

Lou said...

This is awesome. Love it. I don't mind your wake up calls at all.

Shadow said...

it's sad how so many people go through life without actually living...

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Mary Christine said...

Very nice.